January 10, 2012

The Baker's Dozen Thirteen Ways To Look Thinner…Now!

I’m like you. I’ve been searching for that quick fix to instantly lose the extra pounds I seem to pick up every winter. I’m ashamed to admit how many crazy things I’ve tried. I wish I could offer a quick tip on how to lose 10 pounds, tell you something I’ve tested that worked like a charm. I can’t give you that, but I do have some ideas on how to look like you’ve already lost 10 pounds!

  1. Give Your Hairstyle Some Height  - Looking a bit taller will always make you look thinner. 
  2. Break Out Those High Heels -My rule of thumb is that for every inch you can get on your heel, you will look five pounds thinner. Keep in mind that this is my own theory and has never been scientifically tested – but I promise it works. The smartest height is 2 ½" to 3". I’ve just given you permission to shoe shop! 
  3. No Form-Fitting Styles -When your clothes are a little too tight, you don’t feel your best. The best, most flattering fit will be something that gently skims your silhouette
  4. Nothing Too Loose - Remember this: extra fabric = bulk. Bulk = fat. So, if you are wearing something that is too big for you, or is very voluminous, you will look heavier. A smarter decision is to wear something with a princess (or peplum) cut. 
  5. Try a Few Layers - A cardigan buttoned just in the middle (don’t button the top or the bottom two buttons) will create an hourglass silhouette. This over a fitted tee is always flattering. 
  6. Find the Right Undergarments -Properly fitting undergarments will allow your clothing to look smoother, also making you look thinner. Be sure that your bra is the proper size and is correctly “lifting” things. That “lift” will elongate your torso and will shave off the pounds. Of course, Spanx or similar compression undergarments can help you instantly look thinner (see below for some other tips on undergarments)
  7. Bring Attention to Your Small Waist - Even if you’ve gained some weight, chances are that the measurement of your natural waist is still the smallest. Let’s bring attention there with styles that have an empire waist (styles that hit at your natural waistline).
  8. Be Sure You Choose Fabric Wisely -For the time being, steer clear of silky fabrics. They tend to be clingy. Wear something that is more substantial. A mid-weight fabric that has some drape is the best choice. 
  9. Wear Darker Colors -Dressing in darker colors will not only make you feel better, but darker hues are slimming. Choose looks that are monochromatic (all one color or tone). 
  10. Watch That Color Break - In other words, be mindful of where you have a color break (contrast between colors). For example, if you wear black pants with a grey top, where the top hits your pants is where you are bringing attention, probably at your hipline. Is that where you want people to be looking? To avoid this, throw on a longer black sweater or jacket; you’ve now created a column with the black pieces, which is more slimming.
  11. Carry an Oversized Handbag- Sounds too good to be true, I know, but proportion can play tricks on the eye. Choose a shape that flatters (square shapes complement a rounder figure) and a strap length that doesn’t land in a problem area (don’t let the bottom of the purse rest on full hips). Be careful of proportion here. If you are petite, don’t let your handbag get too big; it will look like a duffle bag! Keep the proportion of your handbag in line with your stature.
  12. Focus on What You Like - Every woman has a feature they know works for her. Instead of always focusing on covering up what you don’t like, flaunt what you do like. For example, a sleeveless dress will make everyone notice your awesome arms; a shorter-length skirt will draw attention to your great legs. A deep V-neck top will show off your beautiful long neck.
  13. Accessorize - Accessories are a great tool to use to your advantage. Use accessories (scarves, earrings, necklaces) to draw attention away from problem areas. The thing to keep in mind is to be sure that the size of the accessory is in line with your stature. One of the most common fashion faux pas is a tiny earring on a larger lady, or a big, billowy scarf on a petite woman.
Did you know
  • Compression garments come in a variety of styles. You can “compress” everything from your ribcage past your knees. There are even styles for men
  • Some Hollywood elite double Spanx. They wear the Spanx pantyhose and then the regular Spanx over the top.
  • Target carries a brand of Spanx that is less expensive. It’s true! It’s made by the same designer, but is just repackaged for Target. The Target brand (Assets) doesn’t have the variety you can find on Spanx.com, but it’s a great way to give a compression garment a try for a special event.
This article appears in the January 2012 issue of The Family Magazine of Michiana

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December 21, 2011

Christmas Outfit - idea #4...LBD

1.      You can’t go wrong with the LBD
  1. Add textured tights or colored tights to your favorite Little Black Dress...it will give your tried-and-true stand by a new and more fresh look.
  2. Statement jewelry - I know I keep saying "statement jewelry" on this blog, but it is true! Accessories will make or break your outfit.  Accessories will take the LBD from bla to WOW!
  3. Fun handbag - I've seen so many adorable party bags this season, and pairing them with a LBD is perfect!

December 20, 2011

Christmas Outfit - idea #3...other sparkle ideas

1.      Up the sparkle with accessories
  1. Simple jeans and black turtleneck become dressed up when you pair them with sparkle.  Why not bring out that rhinestone statement necklace and wear it with your favorite turtle and skinnies?
  2. Add a tuxedo jacket- this is something you might be able to find at a Thrift Store for a few dollars...and I promise, it is something you will wear time and time again!  The Tux jacket is also something that looks great with a ruffled skirt. 
  3. Wow jewelry and a statement shoe - In addition to bringing in your boldest jewelery with your jeans, add a statement shoe...why not wear a sequined shoe with jeans! 

December 19, 2011

Christmas Outfit - idea #2...the unexpected







1.      Try unexpected colors – white, winter white, light blue

 A winter white and silver combo is sophisticated.  You might even try gold and chocolate brown.   Wow!  You will definitely get a second look and compliments!

Bring in something unexpected like a men’s tailored button up shirt with a sequin skirt.  This will instantly take something that seems to formal and dressed up and bring it down to a more casual level.  Ground the sequin skirt with a simple riding boot for an even more casual look.

December 18, 2011

Christmas Outfit - idea #1...glitz



1.      A little glitz is expected – so it in an subtle way
  1. Sparkle is a great way to dress up jeans or a simple black skirt or pant.
  2. Faux fur is a big trend this season, wearing it with a little holiday glitz is spot-on! 
  3.  Always love a statement shoe...especially with you pair it with something unexpected (like a shimmer top).
  4. Bring the whole look together with simple accessories - and you are ready for all of your holiday parties!

December 17, 2011

Holiday Fashion Don't

Last weekend I shared some ideas on what to wear on WSBT, and this week we talked about holiday attire for parties on WFRN.  I thought I'd combine the two conversations for you here on the blog...first, let's talk about what NOT to wear! 

There are some hard and fast rules about what you shouldn't wear to your company holiday gathering.  As a gentle reminder:


  1. No Santa outfits!  Nothing in red, white fur with a black belt.  This rule also includes not dressing up as an Elf. Unless, of course, you are dressing up as Santa for the kids or one of his helpers at the mall. 
 
 
2.  No Santa Ties or Socks.  Now, I know MANY of you out there LOVE your Santa, Tree, Wreath, Rudolf icon emblazoned attire...but let me tell you - you are the only one who thinks it is cute. On the socks, wearing the bright red with the tree version goes against fashion rule #1 for footwear..."socks should match your pants!".  On the ties - ladies, feel free to chime in here - yes, we love to see our men dressed up and looking perfectly polished for our Christmas gatherings...but the second he puts on that holiday tie, the entire mood is gone! Ladies, and I right? 


3.  No "Ugly” applique sweaters (unless, of course it is an Ugly Sweater themed party).  I mean, look how great this gentleman looks in his poinsettia vest! Don't we all want to look just as fashionable and dapper this holiday season?








4.  Mistletoe is not an accessory.  I've seen mistletoe worn in some CRAZY ways...the truth is - it makes other people at your holiday party uncomfortable.  There are other, more subtle and classy ways, to get a smooch on Christmas this year.





5.  Don't dress in shimmer or sequins head to toe.  Too much of a good thing makes you look a little bit like a Christmas tree (i.e. decorated!).  A little shimmer is THE BEST way to wear this holiday favorite.




    6.  Don’t defer to your favorite night-club outfit for the office holiday party.  This might be the BIGGEST Holiday Fashion Don't!  Just remember you STILL have to go back to work on Monday morning...and do you really want all your co-workers to remember (and talk about) what you wore to the Christmas Party for the next 12 months?





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